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How can we achieve a more equitable society if some people play by the rules and others ‘bend’ the rules to suit them? Loopholes and shortcuts have become the American Way of high achievement, but is it fair? Should we all exploit these shortcuts to get ahead? Or should the…

I hear a lot, from my therapist, other researchers, and articles, that many of us complain that we feel ‘different’ or ‘other’ in the context of our immediate communities of friends and families. Here I argue that, doesn’t feeling different unite us somehow? Also, that being different is the secret…

This week I discuss something my therapist told me. I was explaining to her how I have always felt ‘other’, ‘different’, or ‘apart from’ whatever community I’ve been a part of – to varying degrees. She told me that nearly every person she has ever counseled says the same thing….

Most of us have some kind of addiction. Whether it’s something as benign as Diet Coke, or as life threatening as heroin, we can relate to the pull of being addicted to something. Much of what we talk about addiction is related to the biological or physiological nature. Here I…

I think everyone is addicted to something. Some of us are lucky and we’re addicted to something that probably won’t kill us. Like Diet soda. Some have real problems with life threatening addictions like fentanyl or heroin. Some people are addicted to working or even sex. Whatever your addiction I…

Our fear of the future leads us to discourage the next generation from Dreaming Big. But, big dreams are the key to positive change. Sure, not all dreams come true, but I argue we should remember to Dream Big. Full podcast via your favorite provider, or here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/530563/5114914-kew-episode-18-dream-bigger.mp3?blob_id=20566279&download=true Youtube video…

In my first ever post I discuss Facts, Ideas, and Opinions. It’s important to know the difference. In the day of alternate facts, fake news, and seemingly infinite opinions it’s critical to be aware of all the misinformation out there. More critical is being able to discern reality and get…

I know, the title may be a little harsh. And don’t tell me to move. I don’t really think the USA sucks in its’ entirety. But there are elements of my home country that seem to be changing. But, of course, I’m also changing. It’s hard to tease apart what…

I mean not really, but kinda. The USA is in a weird place. Or is it just me? It’s hard to tease apart who is changing more, myself or my country. Full Episode tomorrow right here. Preview link: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=329776451487269