Ahh, stress, our bestest buddy. Our forever companion. The voice in our head telling us how much we suck. The ticking clock rushing us to work and home every day. Yeah, you know what stress is, but what is it REALLY? And how can it be so many DIFFERENT things?…
Tag: Philosophy
KEW Are vs Should Interview Series: Dalton Johnson
This was a really fun interview. I hesitate to say that, because it implies that not all the interview are fun, but I’m saying it anyway. It’s kind of like when people say, ‘to be honest with you . . . ‘, because that implies they are sometimes dishonest. But…
Preview KEW Episode 73: What is Stress?
You think you know what stress is, but do you? I think the term ‘stress’ is oversimplified. Sure, sometimes just venting ‘I’m stressed!’ is helpful to get some of the negative energy out, let people know how you are generally feeling, or explain your behavior. But ‘stress’ is so overused,…
Preview KEW The Are vs Should Interview Series: Dalton Johnson
Ok, so I got pretty lucky (again) when Dalton Johnson agreed to be interviewed on KEW. Like Dawn Bates, I met Dalton in a facebook group that links podcast with potential interviewees. All I knew about Dalton is, again like Dawn, he seemed to live more in his ‘are’. From…
FLASHBACK! KEW Episode 54: The Bully and Your DNA (Part 1)
In this flashback Episode I separated the two main elements from the Are vs Should Problem. The Bully is the ‘Shoulds’, those voices in your head telling you to do things a certain way, follow a specific path, or make a decision that jibes with an influential element in your…
KEW Episode 72: What is Success?
If you said ‘money’ or ‘power’, you are not alone. Sure, there are lots of different versions of success. Getting a good grade. Getting a raise or a better job. Being invited to a prestigious event. Being revered or treated like a celebrity. But I think we can generally boil…
KEW Are vs Should Interview Series: Dawn Bates
I found Dawn Bates on a podcast interview facebook site. She was looking for podcasts to do interviews and promote her story. She is a coach, an author, and a genuine warrior. She is on a mission to help people in as many ways as she can. I reached out…
PREVIEW KEW Episode 72: What is Success?
How do YOU define success? I would like to say I define success in terms of happiness, satisfaction, and contentment. But I’d be lying if I didn’t let money and power creep in there. I think most of society, or at least the *SHOULD* elements from society and the process…
KEW Preview: The Are vs Should Interview Series: Dawn Bates
This week I am kicking off my second interview series IN ADDITION to my regular weekly episode. I am asking folks about their thoughts on the Are vs Should Problem, or the struggle many of us experience between the person we ARE and the person we feel like we SHOULD…
FLASHBACK! KEW Episode 53: Are vs Should Examples
If you think about any element in your life you can probably see an example of the Are vs Should Problem. Sometimes it looks like indecision or Analysis Paralysis (and see Episode 11: Analysis Paralysis). Other times it feels like frustration or anger. In my experience I feel like I…